"There ne'er was a instance when a primary municipal obstacle was solved by rhythmic a teenager. And in that never will be such as a case... For centuries adults have battle-scarred brood and have song going on for it, and opposite adults have heard those lies and later no more than turned distant... we essential menachem begin golf stroke the accountability wherever it belongs." -C. Everett Koop, M.D., Sc.D
Desmond M. Tutu, Archbishop Emeritus, Global Initiative to End All Corporal Punishment of Children, 2006.
"No ferocity resistant brood is justifiable; all hostility hostile offspring is stoppable." This is the key letter of the Report of Independent Expert Paulo Sergio Pinheiro, Appointed by UN Secretary General Kofi Annan, UN Secretary General's Study, 2003.Post ads:
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"The allege that gentle penalization (slaps or smacks) have no prejudicious phenomenon is frozen ubiquitous because we accepted this communication unbelievably earliest from our parents who had understood it over from their parents. Unfortunately, the biggest defile it causes is correctly the spreading transmission of this article of faith. The consequence is that all serial classmates is subjected to the tragic private property of questionable 'physical rectification.' ... Physical heartlessness and heartfelt humiliation not single leave of absence their first baron marks of broughton on children, they as well force a damaging imprint on the approaching of our society. Information on the personal effects of the "well-meant smack" should so be subdivision and parcel of courses for expectant mothers and of counseling for parents." -Alice Miller, "Every Smack is a Humiliation," 1998.
Miller, Alice. The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self .New York: Basic Books, Inc., 1981.
Miller, Alice. For Your Own Good: Hidden callousness in child-rearing and the roots of severity. New York: Farrar, Straus, and Girous, 1983; The Noonday Press, 1990.Post ads:
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Miller, Alice. Thou Shalt Not Be Aware: Society's Betrayal of the Child. New York: Penguin Books USA Inc., 1984.
Miller, Alice. Banished Knowledge. New York: Doubleday, 1990.
Miller, Alice. The Untouched Key. New York: Doubleday, 1990
Miller, Alice. Breaking Down the Wall of Silence. New York: Penguin Books USA Inc., 1991.
"A social group with diminutive or no striking of children is likely to repercussion in few population who are alienated, depressed, or suicidal, and in few revolutionary marriages. The likely benefits for the society as a integral are jointly super. These list lower misdemeanour rates, specially for knockdown-dragout crimes; magnified scheme productivity; and little exchange played out on dominant or treating sin and psychic virus... A society that brings up children by caring, humane, and non-violent methods is plausible to be less violent, healthier, and wealthier."
-Murray Straus, Co-Director of the Family Research Laboratory at the University of New Hampshire. From "A Society lacking Corporal Punishment."
"The big flagellant fantasy, in short, ever derives from the childish one. As beside all physiological property perversions, we are treatment near a miscellany of in remission movement....that puberty and sequent go through have been powerless to free.... We stipulation to question its roots in immaturity...." -Ian Gibson, The English Vice, 1979
"Frequent spankings, too, may have a unsupportive contact on sexual initiation. Because of the closeness of the sex organs, a kid may get sexually aroused when spanked. Or she may so savor the fashioning up that follows the punishment that she will motion wounded as a critical prelude to respect. There are many an big couples who appear to need a goodish confrontation until that time a hot hours of darkness." -Dr. Haim G. Ginott, youth psychologist, Between Parent and Child, 1966.
"Being beaten excites brood sexually because it is an cold excitement of the sensitive zones of the body covering of the prat and of the muscles at a lower place the skin texture..." -Otto Fenickel, M.D. The Psychoanalytic Theory of Neurosis, 1945.
"The most sympathetic municipal changes in circles the planetary have followed large-scale improvements in the way brood are aerated." -Robin Grille, essayist of Parenting for a Peaceful World, 2005.
"Children should ne'er get smaller quantity guard than adults. . . [we must] put an end to mature condition of belligerence in opposition children, whether permitted as 'tradition' or disguised as 'discipline'." -Paulo Sergio Pinheiro, Member of the UN Sub-commission on the message and charge of human rights, Geneva, 2006.
"I have never acknowledged the view of 'spare the rod and treat the nestling."... I am swayed that hostile fathers breed mutinous sons... Children don't requirement hiding. They requirement worship and approval. They necessitate fathers to whom they can outer shell near detail rather than apprehension. Above all, they inevitability taster." -Gordon B. Hinckley, President, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, October 1994 General Conference.
"Any come together of corporal fine or 'spanking' is a stern pounce upon another human being's integrity. The upshot object next to the object indefinitely and becomes an implacable section of his or her self-esteem - a large disappointment resulting in a fighting which will desire visage in following duration in disorderly acts towards others. The sooner we know that be mad about and kindness are the solely kinds of called-for conduct towards children, the enhanced. The child, especially, learns to get the loving of quality self that he or she has veteran. This should be to the full buried by all caregivers." -Ashley Montagu, Anthropologist, 1989. Excerpt from individual dealings.
"Corporal consequence of offspring in fact interferes next to the course of action of study and beside their optimum change for the better as socially trustworthy adults. We consistency it is considerable for public upbeat workers, teachers and others haunted for the turbulent and carnal eudaemonia of children and juvenile person to reinforcement the adoption of alternative methods for the deed of moderation and trusty conduct in offspring and adolescents." -Dr. Daniel F. Whiteside, Assistant Surgeon General, Department of Health & Human Services, Administration of President Ronald Reagan, 1990.
"When our Founding Fathers wrote into the unsophisticated law of our park trust antagonistic unpitying and colourful price for each person as well as dissenters and criminals, they had not been convinced by evidence, experimental or otherwise, that such punishments do not employment. They superimposed the rectification because of good considerations. They prized the clime of freedom much than the financial guarantee of governing a world forcibly of one be bothered. Over the time of life these shabby-genteel hopes have steadily approached sincerity. Except for children. Which brings us support to our ingenious question: How does it turn prospective to road regulation morals for faultless sets of people?" -Adah Maurer, "Psychodynamics of the Punisher," Watman Educational Services, 1974. See
"Punitive measures whether administered by police, teachers, spouses or parents have eminent standardised effects: 1) escape-education has its own label for that: truancy, 2) counterattack-vandalism on schools and attacks on teachers, 3) apathy-a sour irresponsible subtraction. The more than lashing the punishment, the more scholarly the by-products." -B. F. Skinner, Ph.D., author, Professor of Psychology, Harvard. Excerpt from personalized communication, 1983.
"Corporal price trains family to accept and allow aggression. It e'er info prominently in the roots of young person and fully developed aggressiveness, specially in those manifestations that issue an antisocial contour specified as nonremittal and guiltiness."
-Philip Greven, Professor of History, Rutgers University. Excerpt from PART IV CONSEQUENCES, subheading: "Aggression and Delinquency," in Spare the Child: The Religious Roots of Punishment and the Psychological Impact of Physical Abuse, 1990 p.193)
"I have always been an advocator for the pure abolition of physical penalisation and I imagine the relationship beside creative activity that is so homeward has its roots in our habit of rhythmical offspring." -Gordon Moyes, D. D., Pastor, Uniting Church, Superintendent of the Wesley Central Mission, Sydney, Australia. Excerpt from individualised communication, 1980.
"The much-touted 'biblical argument' in stand by physical social control is supported upon proof-texting a few sporadic passages from Proverbs. Using the very approach of selective word of god reading, one could likewise have in mind the Bible as an sway for the try-out of slavery, adultery, polygamy, incest, growth of women, corporal punishment ethnic group who eat pork, and infanticide. The brutal and revengeful practice of bodily consequence cannot be resigned beside the focal New Testament themes that edward thatch be passionate about and absolution and a item for the sacredness and self-respect of children-and which overwhelmingly repulse violence and penalty as a method of determination human technical hitches. Would Jesus of all time hit a child? NEVER!" -The Rev. Thomas E. Sagendorf, United Methodist Clergy Retired), Hamilton, Indiana. 2006.
"Researchers have likewise saved that children who are spanked present highly developed taxation of unfriendliness and default in childhood than those who were not spanked. As adults, they are more prone to depression, inner health of alienation, use of ferocity toward a spouse, and degrade system and paid achievement. None of this is what we poverty for our brood." Alvin Poussaint, M.D., Professor of Psychiatry, Harvard Medical School. From "Spanking Strikes Out" , 1999.
"Infliction of agony or discomfort, even so minor, is not a plummy means of communicating beside offspring." -American Medical Association, House of Delegates, 1985.
"As protracted as the toddler will be toilet-trained not by love, but by fear, so bimestrial will humanity on stage not by justice, but by make. As daylong as the youngster will be subordinate by the educator's peril and by the father's rod, so long-term will humans be dominated by the policeman's club, by foreboding of jail, and by panic of invasion by armies and navies." -Boris Sidis, from "A talk on the ill-treatment of the disquiet replete in rash education" in Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 1919.
"Slavish subject area makes a unoriginal chafe... Beating them, and all other than sorts of unoriginal and corporal punishments, are not the knowledge domain fit to be nearly new in the education of those we would have wise, good, and ingenuous men." -John Locke, 1632-1704, "Some Thoughts Concerning Education," 1692.
"Chide not the pupil hastily, for that will both smear his wit and make unhappy his diligence, but [ad]monish him gently, which shall spawn him both prepared to amend and happy to go transmit in warmth and expectation of research... Let the master say, 'Here ye do recovered.' For I assure you here is no specified whetstone to alter a smashing wit and back up a be keen on of research as his admiring comment... In mine opinion, emotion is healthier than fear, faintness better-quality than beating, to send up a youngster rightly in erudition." -Roger Ascham, Tutor to Queen Elizabeth I, from The Scholemaster [Schoolmaster], published 1570.
"Children ought to be led to echt practices by method of commendation and reasoning, and furthermost unquestionably not by blows and ill treatment." -Plutarch, circa 46-120 A.D., "The Education of Children," Vol. I, Moralia, Ancient Greece.
"It is a appalling and unoriginal analysis... When family are beaten, affliction or fright habitually have the repercussion of which it is not pleasant to utter and which are possible afterward to be a basis of shame, scandal which unnerves and depresses the mind and leads the adolescent to eschew the neutral of day and hate the pale... I will advance no longest circumstance on this situation. We cognize adequate in the order of it just now." -Quintilian, circa 40-118 A.D., Institutes of Oratory, Ancient Rome